Women aren’t difficult; men just need to be more mindful. If you’re asking yourself, “Does she like me?” it’s time to pay attention to the signals.
In this context, men and women aren’t that dissimilar. We all waste time pondering whether or not another person likes us, unsure of what to do. We’re just human, after all. However, the best way to tell if she’s into you is to observe her conduct.
When you fall in love with a girl, it’s difficult to know if she feels the same way. People struggle to be frank about their feelings despite the fact that there are so many ways to connect with each other. It seems that the more ways we have to communicate with others, the less we genuinely communicate with them. It doesn’t have to be that way, though.
Now, I’ve learned the hard way that this doesn’t mean she’ll confess to her feelings. She may be giving you all the signals, but something inside her is preventing her from moving forward. However, that isn’t the point. You want to get to the point where you can tell if she’s interested in you first.
Bear in mind, gentlemen. You just need to keep your eyes open. Don’t make it more difficult for yourself. “Actions speak louder than words,” as the saying goes. There’s a reason the adage is so well-known: it’s real. However, you must remain rational and not delude yourself. So, here are a few ways to tell if she’s interested in you.
#1 She Hangs Around You
Listen, ladies don’t hang out with guys who aren’t interested in them. They all have male pals, but if you’re a new man, there’s no way she’s going to spend time with you unless you make her feel something. It’s not going to work out. People only spend time with people they believe are deserving of their time.
#2 She Continues The Discussion
She may be nervous at first, but that doesn’t mean she’s not interested. You must give her space to unwind and open up. Now, if she never opens up, that’s a different story. If she is the one who is conversing and talking, it is a positive indication that she is interested in what you have to say.
#3 It’s All About The Laughter
If she laughs at your dad jokes, it’s a sure sign she’s interested in you. If a guy makes a lame joke and she’s not interested in him, he’ll get a pity smile – that’s right, a pity smile. But if she’s crying from laughing at your jokes, she thinks you’re hilarious. Women, on the other hand, adore funny men.
#4 It’s All About The Eyes
You can see her interest in you, if you look away from her boobs for two seconds and move your eyes up. Her eyes can sparkle when she listens to you speak or when she laughs and looks at you. You’ll notice it. All you have to do is look.
#5 She Acknowledges You
If she doesn’t like you, you could get a friendly “hello” if you’re lucky. She is going to ignore you for the most part. It’s only a matter of time if she acknowledges you in a room and pays attention to you.
#6 She’s All Smiles
Come on, she’s one happy girl if she can’t stop smiling for you. You’ll be lucky if she even crack a smile if she doesn’t like you. Her face will be likely sore by the end of the day if she’s really into you.
#7 Her friends Know Few Things About You
Ladies don’t tell their friends about guys they’re not interested in, after all. It’s pointless, to be honest. They only chat about guys who are of interest to them. So, if her friends know out about you, she has definitely talked to them about you.
#8 She Relaxes Around You
This can take some time, but if you notice her acting less stressed and more natural, that’s a sign she’s getting used to it. Perhaps she’ll tell you one of her poor jokes or burp in front of you and laugh it off.
#9 She Touches You Gently
I’m sorry, but she’s not going to rub your D-factor. It just doesn’t work that way. She can, however, brush your arm while she laughs, or she may give you a back massage. She’s interested if she goes out of her way to touch you. A lady isn’t going to touch a guy she doesn’t like.
#10 She’s Curious About Whether You Have A Girlfriend
She won’t ask you directly, but she’ll probably say something along the lines of, “Wow, I bet your girlfriend laughs at your jokes all the time.” Bam, that’s it. That is everything there is to it. That’s the deal. She’s trying to figure out what the situation is.
#11 She shares Her Personal Information With You
I’m not referring to her social security number or credit card pin. Perhaps her parents split when she was young, causing her trauma, or perhaps her grandmother recently died. You don’t share this detail with strangers or people you don’t know. She trusts you if she confides in you about this.
#12 She Gives You Her Full Attention
She isn’t checking her phone every two seconds, and she isn’t ignoring you when she is on the phone with her colleagues. No, no, no, no, She’s fully present, her phone is put away, and she’s completely absorbed in your conversation. That’s someone who is fond of you.
#13 She Regularly Engage You On Social Media
It’s cool if she texts you and likes your Facebook status updates. You wouldn’t think that social media would be a good predictor of whether or not she likes you, but it is. If you’re the one who’s always messaging her and enjoying her messages, take a break and see if she responds by texting you. If she doesn’t, she isn’t interested in you at all.
#14 She Teases You Playfully
This is known as flirting. It’s a good sign if she’s flirting with you and teasing you in a playful way. Return the flirting and see what she does. Don’t be afraid to flirt back; it’s a perfect way to increase sexual tension between you and your partner.
#15 She Wants To Get Closer To You
If you’re hanging out, she could be walking next to you or sitting next to you with little light between you. This is a positive thing. We like to be around people with whom we feel safe and comfortable. The same can be said for men. She’ll want to be around you if she likes you.
#16 She Suggests Hanging Out One-On-One
She could mention that she wants to see a new movie or that she enjoys going to the beach. That’s it. You’re in. This is the point at which you must seize the opportunity. So, if she mentions anything like that, I recommend the two of you going to see how she reacts.
#17 She’s Not Turned Off By Your Sexual Moves
This is, without a doubt, a good indication. If she doesn’t dodge you when you go to kiss her, then go ahead and kiss her. If she kisses you back, it’s a positive sign. If she doesn’t reject any sexual advances from you, then you shouldn’t be concerned.
#18 She’s Obviously Nervous Around You
Is she a little tongue-tied when you first meet up? Is it difficult for her to come up with conversation starters? Is she unsure of how to address you? Could it be a handshake? What about a hug? What about a kiss on the cheek? What about a kiss on both cheeks? Is she just awkwardly standing there?
If a woman likes you, she’ll get butterflies in her stomach the first time she sees you, which might indicate that her brain is taking a break. She’ll soon become at ease in your company, but her nervousness is a sure sign she’s interested.
#19 She Remember The Things You Tell Her
If she likes you, she’ll most likely pay attention to you. If she remembers your aunt’s dog’s name or your younger brother’s birthday, it’s a sign she’s paying attention and isn’t spacing out.
However, don’t be too hard on this one; some ladies have terrible memories (they’re just human), but if she recalls little details of what you’ve said, she’s obviously interested.
#20 She Hints You About Her Single Status
You might be curious about a girl’s relationship status if you don’t know her and met her at a party, bar, or through friends. However, if she is really interested in you after getting to know you, she would most likely find a way to let slip that she is currently single and unattached.
If she mentions that, it’s one of the clearest indications that she likes what she sees. There would be no point in bringing up such a personal detail if she didn’t. What’s more, she’ll pay close attention to your reaction to see if you’re single as well as what your deeper feelings towards her are.
The question “does she like me?” will finally be answered now that you know the signs. If she exhibits more than five of these characteristics discussed above, there’s a fair chance she’s interested in you.